My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Relationships

Marriage breakdown what do I do?

4 replies

Everythingispetetong · 04/04/2017 23:12

I'm done, I've given him so many chances to change but he hasn't tonight we've had another row about him not doing his fair share of the house work/ looking after the animals and the baby.

I've told him he needs to leave I don't want him here anymore, I'm done looking after all his needs and not getting anything back I'm physically and emotionally drained. He won't leave. I have no where else to go.

I'm currently on maternity leave I have some savings but they are to cover until I go back to work. We have 4 years left on our fixed mortgage. I can't afford childcare and to run the house alone.

I don't know where to start, what do I need to do?

OP posts:
Report
bathmatandbin · 05/04/2017 01:54

take a breathe darling and think...can you get someone to give you some time off, a friend, relative, him? Go and settle yourself and start making plans. Perhaps you'll leave, perhaps you'll stay if he can be more accommodating...you just sound bunged up and in need of some time and space...be kind to your self xxx

Report
Daddy1233 · 05/04/2017 02:19

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

LittleKiwi · 05/04/2017 02:36

This is weird...

Report
Sweets101 · 05/04/2017 02:40

Isn't it just...

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.