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Marriage breakdown what do I do?

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Everythingispetetong Tue 04-Apr-17 23:12:56

I'm done, I've given him so many chances to change but he hasn't tonight we've had another row about him not doing his fair share of the house work/ looking after the animals and the baby.

I've told him he needs to leave I don't want him here anymore, I'm done looking after all his needs and not getting anything back I'm physically and emotionally drained. He won't leave. I have no where else to go.

I'm currently on maternity leave I have some savings but they are to cover until I go back to work. We have 4 years left on our fixed mortgage. I can't afford childcare and to run the house alone.

I don't know where to start, what do I need to do?

bathmatandbin Wed 05-Apr-17 01:54:46

take a breathe darling and think...can you get someone to give you some time off, a friend, relative, him? Go and settle yourself and start making plans. Perhaps you'll leave, perhaps you'll stay if he can be more accommodating...you just sound bunged up and in need of some time and space...be kind to your self xxx

Daddy1233 Wed 05-Apr-17 02:19:50

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LittleKiwi Wed 05-Apr-17 02:36:58

This is weird...

Sweets101 Wed 05-Apr-17 02:40:19

Isn't it just...

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