My aunt, uncle and cousins have always seemed to be jealous of me and my family and like to make cheap digs. This sounds totally petty and a bit boring but the one thing that gets on my tits most is when they refer to the village that I live in they say the village next to me. So i live in a beautiful village over-looking the sea, let's call it 'Beachville' and the village next to me, let's call it 'Sandville' is exactly the same but for some unknown reason they prefer to say I live in that village. Maybe they think it's inferior or they hate the fact that their relative lives in my village and they want to put me down. I usually reply ' i don't live in Sandville, my address is 10 Beachville, I live in Beachville. They insist on dropping that 'are you going to visit Annie in Sandville?' all the time, they all do it. They say it to my mum and my husband too but they just ignore it. I've heard from someone that my Aunt says 'Annie likes to pretend she lives in Beachville but she really lives in Sandville'. Why? I own a house in Beachville and my address is 10 Beachville, what part of that do they inside on being in denial about. Also, similarly, I've just finished a fixed term contract at the end of March and my Aunt has said to my mum 'What is Annie doing since she got the sack?' my mum is like me , we feel like we've been punched in the stomach when they say these things and never have a retort quick enough. We have always risen above it and put it down to sour grapes because we're happy and healthy. It's like a game to them. Our strategy has always been to kill them with kindness but I'm losing my rag with them now, other than distancing myself from them I don't know what to do.
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How do you deal with cheap digs and low blows from family?
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AnnieHoo · 04/04/2017 13:36
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