I'm in my mid 40s, I've got A LOT of personal stuff going on.
My brother is a lot younger than me and he is getting married next year to a girl (who is lovely) who is much younger than him. She could very, very easily be my daughter. She has two younger sisters.
My mum has not explicitly but hinted enough (my mum can't keep a secret for toffee) that I'm going to be asked to be a bridesmaid along with her sisters.
I don't want to be a bridesmaid, I'm happy to help, but I feel way to old to be one. I also have the personal stuff which means I don't want to either.
How can I say no to this without really upsetting everyone?
Thank you.
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Is this something I can say no to, and if it is how do I do it?
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Karcheer · 02/04/2017 20:28
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