I threw my husband out in January after discovering an affair. He had gaslighted me for some time "I love you but not in love with you" and all that bollocks. I knew something was happening but ended up proving it. I began divorce proceedings straight away.
Although this is literally my worst nightmare, I have remained strong throughout, we have children so I can't fall apart, it just isn't an option.
The last week I'm not sure if it's starting to hit my properly or this is just how I'll feel for a while but I feel more broken now than 3 months ago. I feel lonely at night and more teary in the day than I have done. Is this normal? I feel a bit stuck at the minute. I know what I'm going to do going forward, I.e job, change houses etc but I can't really get on with any of it until the divorce has progressed further.
I realise everyone is different, I was just hoping someone had felt he same? And that I'll get back to feeling strong and not 'on the edge'. X
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