Hi. I have thought about leaving my DP for around 9 months and feel like I have made up my mind.
We are engaged to be married, together 7 years, 2 children 1 and 6, have mortgage in principle for a house and due to buy in the summer. Currently renting, I am a SAHM and he earns 1000-1200 net pw.
I know it sounds malicious, but should I stay until the house is bought to protect my children's future? Or because I am the one to leave, should I leave the house with the kids and rent elsewhere?
I could afford the rent here whilst working, i would be on minimum wage due to being out of the workforce for a few years. He could still buy on his own.
I just need someone to talk this through with - please help me help myself!
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Cheyanne8 · 26/03/2017 20:49
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