I've been divorced for almost a year, it's been difficult but I have no regrets. He cheated a few times over the years, always my fault for neglecting him - bless him! He admitted to one OW, she told me about another (which he denied) and I later found out that there had been another as I suspected just before he moved out. We were married for 18 years and the affairs were during the last few years. However, I saw a close friend this week and she admitted that he had tried it on with her mant years ago. At the time, we had been married for 3 years and had 2 babies. Obviously I believe my friend and I'm grateful that she told me but the more I think about it, the angrier I am with him. I knew he was a class A cunt anyway but despite this I didn't think he would ever have tried it on with one of my closest friends, especially not at a time when we were supposedly happy and had 2 small children! Obviously it has reinforced that divorcing him was the right thing to do but I feel as if I'm angry at him all over again! I really want to confront him about this plus it's got me wondering how many more there were and questioning my judgement because at that time I would have confidently said that he would never have cheated. I'm worried I'll never be able to trust a man again! Grrrr, what an absolute twat! It wouldn't be worth confronting him would it?
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New revelations about my cheating ex... renewed hatred!
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WeeMcBeastie · 18/03/2017 10:36
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