I've name changed because this is identifying.
I split from my husband and was immediately involved in a disastrous same sex relationship. The woman was a friend for a while before but she was honestly the best and worst thing to ever happen to me. I put my complete trust in her, she made promises. She lied. She was abusive. She is a narcissist. She raised everything. And then she left me. Completely NC and made out on social media I was abusive myself and a stalker. It was awful. I was suicidal. I had a breakdown.
That was in November.
I joined a dating site for fun. But I didn't like anyone at all. I'm very fussy and selective and I have to feel a real connection to someone to even look twice. I'm not easily attracted to people. It very rarely happens. I very rarely click with people.
But then I joined FB page and there was a woman on there. I immediately thought she was beautiful and we commented on a few threads and she messaged me privately.
That was 2 weeks ago and we have talked non stop. Morning to night
She is so different from my ex. I laughed more last night than I have in the last 6 months. She makes me feel fuzzy and blush. She likes me, she's said so we flirt and its so natural.
I want to meet her but I'm so scared.
I'm scared because I like her. And I never thought i would like soneone again. Especially not so soon. I'm just scared.
I'm scared it will happen again. That I will fall in love and she will abandon me. It nearly killed me last time. And I know it's early days but I guess it's just such a shock that I woke up this morning and my first thought was her and I felt happy.
How do you trust after someone destroying your heart?
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So I've met someone I like. And I'm scared.
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HesitantHeart · 18/03/2017 10:25
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