I think I might just need a bit of hand holding..... I have a very complicated relationship with my mother and my eldest son. Things are quite difficult at the moment due to various life pressures, however my son has, in my opinion, been really depressed over the last few years - he has dad issues, and other things going on. He doesn't work or claim benefits, has no friends and never does anything. He makes a mess in the house and sleeps all day. He lives with my mum.
She's in hospital at the moment, (a whole other thread - serious self neglect) and is really worried about my son. She alluded to some very dark secret that was ruining his entire life, and after saying she couldn't tell me, then has told me that two weeks ago she managed to get out of him that his penis is extremely bent, painful and he can't get an erection. He has apparently seen two different doctors, who have said it is incurable and will get worse.
I'm a bit gobsmacked. He's currently on self-destruct with family members, just taking the piss left right and centre. He is chronically shy and I think has really low self esteem.
I've basically said to my mother that she needs to address this with him. Having had a quick look at some of the internet information, the upshot seems to be that it is 'incurable' but that sometimes it goes away on it's own, but there are treatments such as massage, keeping the penis warm using hand warmers, and using a vacuum which all serve to increase blood flow.....
This regime, coupled with certain supplements, not smoking, not sitting in a computer chair and doing squats and deadlifts has had results for some men.
The surgical options are a last option, but I feel like my son needs to get his head round this and move forwards, not hide in his room forever thinking girls will laugh at him and he'll never have sex again.....
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I think my 20 year old son has Peyronies Disease
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trashcanjunkie · 11/03/2017 01:30
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