Be gentle with me, don't need to be told how dumb I am or was. I broke up from a 10 year relationship because my ex cheated on me. Anyway I did some detective work and found out she was a bit more brazen than me, she had tongue piercings, nipple piercings and had sent my ex loads of naked selfies. In all our 10 years I never let him take a naked photo of me.
So I started to feel I was too prudish too up tight, too much of a good girl and that when I met another guy I needed to up my game.
So I met this guy online. And within weeks I had sent a few photos, never my face in any photo, just body, close up of boobs or lady bit. And then I sent a few lingerie ones and then a pic with me in a bra but really fancy one and I'm wearing hot pants, for the hot pants one my face is in, but it wasn't a sexy pic at all, just a selfie, it's the only one with my face.
Anyway to make a long story short I've decided me and this guy isn't going to work, he hasn't deleted his profile like he said, didn't want to add me on Facebook, never use his phone around me, so could be here all weekend, and not use his phone once, but when he's not here we're always texting, likes to drink too much, smokes like a chimney and is so tight with money it's unbelievable. Every date is at my house/ his house as he makes excuses not to go out and it's not like I want him to buy my meal or tickets, I can sort myself out, he just hates parting with money and he makes a good amount.
Anyway I told him all of the above. He still wants to be with me. I've told him no and broken it off quite a few times as his behaviour seems so very dodgy.
Anyways I was thinking if I should ask him over and when he arrives ask him personally in front of me to delete the photos and I can delete the one he sent to me, I know he won't do it if I text / call asking. Before I ask I would find out if he had cloud storage and backed up photos, I can make small talk about kids and backing up photos to find out first. He has a Samsung Motorola. So I'm thinking ask for whatsapp thread to be deleted, delete photos from phone, then go to deleted photos and permanently delete and so the same on his cloud, but I doubt he has cloud.
Or just let it go as a silly mistake. There's no naked photo with my face, the naked ones are close ups of intimate parts, the only pic with my face that I'm in I'm wearing a bra and hot pants but I'm not in a sexy pose or anything, just standing straight. I suppose if he did reveal them I could say it wasn't me except for that one face photo and the lingerie ones, the ones of my naked body I could deny. I'll never be so silly again, I think I just had a break down and wanted to prove to myself I was just as good as the OW and I could be daring and exciting too. Massive mistake, now my fanny and tits are in his phone.
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Monique31 · 02/03/2017 13:39
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