Hi just wondering if anyone had any advice please.
Background - we have been together 17 years and married for 10 years. We have two primary school aged children.
We have recently moved over an hour and a half away and nearer to my family. Since the move I feel our marriage it lacking that spark that we always had. We had quite a stressful time before the move a family death and then obviously moving and during this time I feel we lost touch with each other.
On paper my husband and my life is brilliant - kind, gentle, great with the children, no money worries, I don't have to work etc. But I just feel we have no fun anymore together and feel I am spending more time feeling sad about this.
Our sex life died after having the children but since raising how I feel just before Christmas we seem to have manage to get this back on track. Although, I would still like to have sex more than my husband.
We are trying to have date nights when we can get someone to look after the children. We are also talking more about how we feel. I was wondering whether going to Relate may help?
Some days I feel like we can work it out, how lucky I am to have a lovely husband & positive about the future. However, other days I just feel I am slowly dying inside and can't face another 40 years or more of this.
Just wondering if anyone else has felt the same and manage to get that spark back?
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Rainbowcat1 · 23/02/2017 16:48
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