My FIL is driving me mad. My FIL is an alcoholic and has always been very difficult to be around. He now has a new girlfriend, also a heavy drinker, equally hard work as she never speaks to us.
I work away mon to fri so do not get much time with OH and kids. So time off is very precious. For the last 2 years every time I have a holiday booked they turn up to stay, not just for a few days but a week at a time. We do not have a spare room, so that they book into a B&B, so I cannot even say it would be great to see you but we can only put you up for 2 nights as busy to try to keep visits reasonable length. This is always half terms, school holidays as his GF works in a school.
I find out last minute by which time I cannot do anything about it. We have been doing a lot of work to house and have not had spare cash to go away so have been stuck with them. Whilst not at our house they expect us to entertain them, which means sitting in dingy pubs whilst they drink. If we don't go to on his Dad sulks. Last time I cooked a meal they turned up legless, could not remember the kids names and had a strop because we had no beer in the house. I now refuse to do this, but that means I do not get to spend time with OH as he feels guilty as they have made effort to come and see us. Have pointed out this is not case as at Xmas we were supposed to be going to see them, but they turned up unexpected as announced they were staying a week even though they knew we were not going to be there!
Sorry for lengthy post but just found out they are coming again, at half term, bombing another holiday. I love my OH, and we have a great relationship, except where his dad is concerned. He just will not tackle the issue as he seems afraid to upset him.
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Bee876 · 15/02/2017 08:46
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