I think DH is out with someone else

Euphemia · 2017-02-14 21:56:52

Valentines Day too, the cunt. Evidence: Told me he was going away overnight with work. I found two cinema tickets for tonight in his pencil case in his work bag, for a movie I don't like, so I knew they weren't for me. Also in pencil case a week ago were four of his "top-up" ED tablets; only two were in there at the weekend. (He takes a regular tablet every morning, kept in bathroom.) Nothing in his work diary about trip, but a note of the time of the film. No train tickets bought: he usually buys them in advance, reserves a seat, etc. Car not parked at train station he'd usually use today. He'd usually do prep work at home for such a trip - no work done in advance of this one. No answers to my texts all evening. It doesn't look good does it? He'll be in the cinema now - do I text him saying I know he's lied, or wait and confront him face to face tomorrow evening? Bastard. He's been acting weird with his phone as well - when I put my light out to go to sleep he taps away on his phone, pausing as if waiting for a reply, and I can see his shadow on the wall smiling/pulling faces as he seems to hold the phone up to take a photo of himself. His phone never leaves his side and I don't know his password. Bastard. Things seem fine otherwise. I thought we were happy. But I can't think of any other explanation for the above. I can't imagine how he could explain all that away as something innocent.

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