Quick background..basically I used to post on the dating thread on here.
Joined an old site, went on a date with 3 people, 3rd one I've been together with for 6 months.
He's totally my type, good looking, independent but wants a future, things we're looking good.
Long story short we've had a few run ins since being together which isn't great. He's very jealous (which he's admitted) he will make underlying comments after he's seen or heard something totally innocent, sometimes days after the event. He thinks I'm out of his league, part of me thinks the same about him. However everything's been good so on we've got.
He's normally pretty happy, he works nights though and it has a pretty big impact on our lives. I work a 'normal' 8-6 and find it hard at times due to him being tired or having strange eating patterns. However again we've worked past fall outs and carried on.
My main issue is his moods. He can be fine one minute and just change almost like we've had a a massive row. I then get a little stressed as I'm unsure what the problem is and he then says I'm the one who is miserable. It sounds very childish which it is but it l also very frustrating.
He doesn't like discussing things when we fall out, he likes to just say it's done with and that's that. I'm one to think it's then brushed under the carpet and not dealt with.
I don't know what to do.
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Neatfreak38 · 06/02/2017 09:23
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