So I have just finished face timing my mam dad and sister in the UK. I don't know whether it's just home sickness or rose tinted glasses but I just need to tell someone - boy do I miss them and boy do I miss England even when they tell me it's cold I want to be there I feel like I'm missing them and missing out on what I would normally be experiencing. I don't really know why I'm posting on here, I guess I just want to tell someone that I really really want to go home. Like really want to go home.
We emigrated to Aus in September 2016 so haven't been here 5 minutes well actually coming up 5 months but you know what I mean. We FaceTime twice a week and sometimes phone too. I miss seeing my mam and dad in the flesh- face time is great but doesn't come close to going to someone's house for a cuppa. I miss going to soft play with my sister and niece. I want to play with my niece. I want to ring my mam about the soaps. I feel this great distance in our lives opening up... And I don't think it's going to get any better ? ?
I think what I'm realising - which is upsetting me most - is that my relationship with my mam and dad and their relationship with my children is changing, I can see the relationship changing, and though I like it here, I don't really think life here is worth losing the closeness we all had (my hubby wouldn't agree with that, but that's for another post on a different day!). Yes that's definitely it, things are changing, and of course they would if we've moved we can't keep things the same.
I tell you what I realised a few days ago, I miss the closeness of my mam. I see my husbands sisters with their mum and I think "why can't I be near my mum?". Seeing their closeness makes me realise I am not part of their family and they don't love me like my family does. The people who love me are thousands of miles way living a different life. I feel like I'm stuck in a really lonely limbo. I'm just waiting to get back t my normal life. I want my mam! Do I sound silly? my sister in law was in the shower and their mum was in their too. I could hear them laughing and chatting - I have absolutely no one here bar my husband who I am close to. Not that I want to share my shower - but what I've done by creating this distance between myself and my family I DID IT. Why oh why did I think I could live in Australia without them? And why would I want to?
I pray every day that God will give me the strength to get through this 🙏
I think what I'm saying is, I don't want to stay in Aus. I'm visiting my family in September, and heck, I might not come back. In fact, I'm not coming back.
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WS12 · 04/02/2017 12:20
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