I've just started seeing this guy and I don't know whether to trust him. Either it's my own reticence at not wanting to get hurt because he seems so great and that's my past talking.... or it is an intuition. I don't know which it is.
So, basically he's very charming and we get on really well. He's also really good-looking and we are on the same wave length. However, should I consider the following things as alarm bells?:
He works in a university halls so is surrounded by uni students. He's just changed his shift to the evening (finishing at midnight) with the logic that he will be able to spend the day time on his business. I don't know what his job is exactly and he's managed to evade answering it. His business he's setting up sounds great, he says he's been working on it for five years and will be launching it in the next couple of months.
We met for a drink and then on the way back he said he was going to drop something off at work on the way back home (it was 11pm) and that a student's phone was locked in the office or something along those lines. His working hours are really confusing and it's not the first time he's just popped into work for an hour or so on his day off.
We had a really nice time and he's not pushy or over complimenting or anything like that, just very chilled and open that he's interested. He mentioned a story though about making a nasty comment to his older sister because she was being difficult in the conversation, which I would never dream of doing (and if I did wouldn't be mentioning it).
Other then these things he's great... I don't know whether I'm just thinking he's too good-looking for me and trying to find ways to distance myself as to not get hurt, or whether these are warning signs. Usually my intuition is really strong but this time I'm unsure as to whether my thoughts are clouding it and destroying something potentially really good.
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Should I trust him?
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AliceZZ · 31/01/2017 11:23
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