Hello everyone,
So i'd really like a bit of advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation, and wouldn't mind sharing their experiences.
I'm 26 and I have been with my partner for just over 2 months, everything has been going amazingly well - up until last week when I found out I was 2-3 weeks pregnant.
Naturally we were both shocked as we were not expecting this (I have a condition which I was told would make it hard to fall pregnant, I was also taking precautions.)
I wasn't entirely sure how I felt about the pregnancy, but straightaway my partner expressed that he didn't want the baby, that we hadn't been together long enough and wanted to enjoy getting to know eachother before having a baby. He is self employed currently, and is constantly chasing money from contracts etc. And this is a massive strain on him, and is also stating that this is a contributing factor to him not wanting a baby right now. ( I also work full time in a senior management position.)
I asked questions I.e would he support me if I chose to keep the baby, he claimed that yes he would.
Now, I personally do not feel that I need a man to have a baby. In fact, I don't need a man full stop. However naturally I'd love for our relationship to work, but since finding out last week he has become VERY distant, doesn't want to talk about it and basically has made it clear he does not want this baby.
I guess I'd just like to know if anyone else has experienced this, and what was the outcome?
I guess I'm just wondering how to approach these next couple of weeks, I don't want to force him into having a conversation about this when he is clearly uncomfortable but at the moment I don't feel I'm getting any support from him. He is moody, snaps at me and we have been arguing over minor things.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated :)
Thank you
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Pregnant and father doesn't want baby
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user1484087737 · 10/01/2017 22:56
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