I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have a holiday booked with his family in 3 weeks time (monday-friday). His parents insisted on covering the costs of this which was very generous. However, I'm not sure that I can be with him any longer. I've found myself in a situation where I'm essentially mothering a man child. We had an argument last week (not a regular thing so that's not an issue) which caused me to realise this. I did tell him at that time that he needs to learn to take responsibility for himself. I love him and he has lots of lovely qualities which makes it more difficult. Should I break up with him now or wait til after the holiday? Should I break up with him at all? As I said I do really love him and I'm the type who wants to fix things. We don't live together.
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