Me and P have decided to split after 9 years. We have 2 DD ages 4 and 3. We just dont seem to get on anymore and 3 weeks ago I asked him if he loved me and he said no. We went on for 3 weeks living together and I eventually asked him to moved out which he has. He calls in to put DDs to bed but as for me its like he cant bear to be in the same room. We have always had a very up and down relationship and I would say 4 out of the 9 years have been reasonably miserable. One minute I feel really positive about going it alone, he has been great in respect of the house and maintenance etc and just wants us both to be happy, and the next I feel so low that I cant see a future for myself. I just want to know if there is anyone else out there who has or is going through this and what the next step should be. He started working away from home a few months ago and only coming home on weekends, things have gone downhill since then but I think it was just the icing on the cake. I am a positive person and have lots of family around me but just not sure if we are doing the right thing, but you cant make someone love you. Please tell me there is a light at the end of the tunnel after this length of time. I hope this is making sense to someone out there cos its doesnt to me at the moment.
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