My gf dumped me. We were in a LDR. Things were difficult at times with distance and some other issues but I love her with all my heart and I'm devestated. She won't talk to me at all. She said it's over and hasn't spoken to me since. That was Dec 23rd.
I'm in pieces still. All I do is cry. I keep looking at her photos and trying to contact her. I know I shouldn't but I just feel so abandoned.
I've put all her things away that were at my house but I still see her everywhere.
It was a VLD relationship so we are never going to 'bump into' each other again.
I'm never going to see her. I just feel utterly broken.
She was my first relationship after splitting with DH. In fact she was the catalyst in our breakup. (We didn't meet until months after DH and I split though)
I just don't know how to get through this. I have depression and anxiety, so I just feel shit.
How do people survive this? I feel suicidal. Though my condition makes me feel like that alot of the time anyway and I would NEVER act upon it, I have kids. But everything seems pointless now I don't have her :(
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How do you let go when you've lost the person you love?
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SpaceGhostCoastToCoast · 04/01/2017 08:55
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