I have been friends with this guy for 3 years, we always got on but he was married and we were always just platonic friends.
2 years ago he broke up with his wife and I was a friend to him, again still very much platonic and he started to sort himself out. Last year he started dating again and I encouraged him.
A couple of weeks ago we went on a night out with each other and one thing led to another. Afterwards was awkward, obviously but we both said that we cared about each other but that it also was confusing.
Since then we have spoken to each other every 2 days or so and have seen each other once a week. He took me to a party, we saw a movie, there was a 2 week break as we both went abroad for Christmas and this week I'm going over to his house.
He said that we need to have a talk about what is going on but he isn't ready yet.
Do you think he is sees this as friends with benefits?
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user1481732740 · 03/01/2017 17:28
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