Hey everyone
I'm new to mumsnet and have been looking for a similar forum for a few months now! Please bare with me whilst I get to grips with the site
I was looking for some advice/insight as I know most of you have children (I don't) and may be able to make me see things i'm maybe missing?
I'm in a new relationship with a guy who absolutely treats me like an angel. I've not had that before so I currently feel very lucky, he is everything I could ask for. I have no children, he has one little girl who is two who i'm yet to meet.
There's one thing bothering me and i'm not sure if i'm being over the top due to previous trust issues but it's making me feel uneasy. My OH talks to his daughter's mum rather a lot. Yesterday he said she called four times and she was texting around 11.30pm, now I appreciate they must talk but every time we go for dinner they're texting. Now I know it is only about their daughter, I trust him but I find it a little excessive. Again, i'm not sure if this is because I have no children and don't have that experience. Previous ex's had children and they'd discuss times to pick up the little one ect. A regular check up with each other a few times a week I was fine with... I don't want to come across as needy/controlling because I am absolutely fine with them talking - I have to be!
Please feel free to tell me i'm being ridiculous or offer advice
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Am I being ridiculous?
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Sparkesx · 09/11/2016 14:19
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