I posted on here several times over the years about my unfaithful husband. True to form a leopard didn't change his spots so when I found photos of old women in my bed performing sexual acts on him I called time.
6 months after filing for divorce and no petition signed, no interim finances agreed and no cooperation on his or his solicitors part. I had hoped to be divorced by now but he is stalling every step of the way. The only way to settle and move forward is to go to court but this will cost me £20-30k (and him) at least.
I want it over and to move on. I have no feelings for him apart from contempt. He is trying to control me with money, keeping the joint account overdrawn to the max and putting money in late at night for the next day's direct debits. He is paying the house bills but no more. He is a high earner and earns more in a day then I do in a month.
I want to be able to manage my own money and not be dictated to by him.
If I go to court I will have to find the money to go through the process.
I just really am at the end of my tether but don't know how to move it foreword.
Anyone been through the financial court process and can advise?
Thanks in advance.
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EdgeofGlory · 03/11/2016 13:29
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