First time posting my own thread and feeling a bit fragile so go easy on me!
I started seeing someone around seven weeks ago and it's been going really well. First person I've become involved with since my EA ex walked out when I was pregnant four years ago. I don't have a great relationship history anyway and to be honest I had given up on the idea that I'd ever settle down.
New guy is separated fairly recently (7 months) with two kids. His wife ended the marriage and he had admitted it absolutely tore his heart out and I suppose I worry that he's not ready. We have great fun together, he is generous and attentive etc.
The problem is that recently I just feel anxious and terrified that I'm going to get hurt, I'm already over invested in what I'm aware is a very new thing and I feel like it could all end any minute. We will have a fantastic few days together then if he goes a bit quiet I feel like it's all going tits up.
It's got to the point where I feel like finishing it just so I won't feel this way anymore. I don't know what I'm looking for from this thread- I suppose reassurance that I'm not insane!! I know full well that I need to get a grip but don't know how to right now
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How do I stop feeling terrified?
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twattymctwatterson · 30/10/2016 20:33
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