My husband & I have split recently & currently he has kids every other weekend, and then visits them in our house 2-3 evenings during the week, puts them to bed etc.
My dc are school age & we are still in the marital home (for now) - he is in a 1 bed flat.
Whilst i know I'm lucky the dc have a good dad, I am finding it very hard emotionally having him in the house all the time.
He left me for OW out of the blue.
How am I ever supposed to 'get over him' if he's always bloody there ?!
Should I just suck it up for the kids-sake?
The other issue is that he still treats it as his home. His stuff is still here.
I gave him his toothbrush & slippers to take this evening and he looked at me if I was mad. I know its silly & pedantic but he choose to leave.
Basically I am just grasping for any control of the situation I can get.
Am I being totally irrational ?
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Does anyone have their Ex/STB-ex visit the kids in their home?
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RetePetite · 28/10/2016 21:44
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