I apologise if this thread is in the wrong place, and their are spelling and missed words, I've typed this out in haste
Looking for advice or what you guys would do.
I've posted a few things on here with different problems I have with my Daughter & Son, and received some good and indifferent advice and tips, so here's another one for you.
my 2 kids well daughter is 18 next year and son is 15 next year, so growing or grown up.....hmmm.
Short story, we are split, both re-married and years and years have past.
I used to see my kids all time they stayed with me and my wife, but as they get older its boring at dads. want my mates etc etc. The communication started to become less and less over 2years, however I would always sent them a text/WhatsApp just to see how they are doing what's news once a week even if I didn't hear from them.
Oh the record, I pay maintenance every month never missed one. Plus every Christmas and Birthday they had I have always given them money and have done ever since, even though they never called or send me anything on my birthday or fathers day, but I guess ive been putting that down to how they have been brought up.
Roll this year, even though I had been texting them sometimes I wouldn't hear for weeks on end, and all I would get back is fine one word, but the only real time they would speak to me is when Christmas came up 2015 and their birthdays looking for their money.
Present day, I not seen or heard from either of them is over 6months and be honest for last 5 months I've now stopped sending them messages as not receiving anything back.
Today 25th Oct 2016, my daughter sends me a big WhatsApp, no hello no how is everything, just asking me for either her Christmas money or next year birthday money as she wants to get tickets to go to a concert.
99% of me saying defiantly not a chance, I just a person they look at with a pound sign, nothing more nothing less, but the 1% of me feeling guilty even though I've heard nothing for months, I feel I should and be a bad parent, but if I do, then for years and years to come they will think so just contact him when we want money as he always pays..
What would you guys do???????
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justinuk777 · 25/10/2016 17:01
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