This might be a sweeping statement but I know some men are not very good at doing more than one thing at once so I do try to ensure my husband is really listening to me when it's something important. We have been having a lot of problems with DD's behaviour & have contacted an outside agency to help. The lady unfortunately let us down the first time but now she has set aside a whole day so that we can choose a time that suits us & she won't have anyone else to see. I told my husband this. I also told him at least three times that the best slot would be around 1.45 to 3.45 for the lady to see us alone then come with us to school, collect DD & chat to her on her own (she has an after school club til 4). My husband has gone & booked someone in for a driving lesson at 3! I was, quite naturally,exasperated with him but he had a go at me then said he misunderstood & thought we had to wait for the lady to get back to us & confirm. I explained very clearly on each occasion so couldn't believe he had booked right in the middle of the time we needed. He then complained about being peed about & that he couldn't afford to lose business,when in fact she is doing the complete opposite of peeing him about! To add to that, he also said he doesn't think we need help now. It got so horrendous that he was talking about leaving & even on one occasion about sending DD back! (She is adopted). There have been loads of other occasions when he has forgotten things - drives me crackers! I try to write a lot more down now but I really thought I didn't need to write this down. We have chosen a slot now but it's in the morning so the lady will have to come back to talk to DD. I think GRRRR about covers it!
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AIBU to expect my husband to remember important things I have told him?
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tigercub50 · 22/10/2016 21:39
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