Just preparing a schedule of DV/DA incidents of my ended marriage. Came across several of my journal/email writings referring to things I had blocked out, and even some writings referring to when I first came upon some of such writings (I hope this makes sense...)
How is it possible I had blocked those incidents out of my memory quite successfully, sometimes for years? There were also incidents I would have never even remembered if I hadn't found the writings from all those years ago...
Is this normal? I tried to google 'blocking out memories' or 'repression' which it quickly referred to but didn't find anything in particular related to domestic abuse. It appears to be a common phenomenon with childhood abuse but what does it mean when an adult has repressed it?
I know a fair bit of some branches of psychology (it somewhat relates to my profession) but my skills fail here so I would appreciate any kind of views or personal experience. This feels so strange...
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Why would someone block out memories of domestic abuse incidents?
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user1475501383 · 17/10/2016 23:02
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