I've posted about my relationship with DF before.
We have been NC for about 6/7 years now due to his wife's EA of me and her constant lying.
She was EA to me as a small child and would make up lies about me (all of which I managed to prove as lies) she lies about pretty big things, like she told me that my DF tried to kill himself because of the first time I went NC with him when I was 17.
DH has been trying to build bridges with my DF and me for the past year or so. It turns out in this time my step mum said my DF didn't want to sort anything out as he has cancer - My DF was pretty devasted to find out that she had said this as it wasn't true.
I have said that I would like to meet up with him for dinner or something similar once a month so he can get to know his GC who he has never met but he won't do this without my step mum being there. I have said no to this as I don't want her in my DCs life as I don't want to run the risk of her being EA towards them like she was with them.
AIBU in asking for a meeting once a month without her being present?
This is probably the last chance we have of sorting things out.
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AIBU about NC with step mother
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Ellarose85 · 13/10/2016 16:39
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