I am just feeling sad about the demise of an old and once close friendship. About 17 years ago I worked very closely with this guy for a few years and we really got on well and also with each others partners and just really supported each other. I eventually left that job but we stayed in touch often even when I moved away often calling and meeting up if we where near each other.
I haven't seen him now for four years although we did speak on the phone about six months ago. He normally gets in touch around my birthday in July or sends a card bu this year nothing. Now I have found out that he was in my town for a few days over the weekend and didn't let me know or arrange to meet. I'm not mad about it but it is just sad really to lose an old friend of so many years. If I am honest it has been coming for a while.
He and his wife are travelling around a bit at the moment so it is a bit difficult to get in touch with them. I will send a card to the address I have for them at christmas but beyond that I will probably just lose touch with them.
It just makes me sad, that is all especially as I have noticed it with others over the past few years, I guess it is only natural but still sad.
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Letting an old friendship die ...sad :(
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ellymisiot · 12/10/2016 15:59
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