My heads spinning with thoughts.
My father turned up at my house today. He lives a few hours away. He did the sane earlier in the year, that ended badly.
Brief background, grew up in toxic environment, wasn't sure if dm loved me, violence, lack of attention etc. Went nc 9(?) years ago.
I feel torn. I do love my dad abd felt sorry for him. He said he rang the police recently as my mother attacked him and threatened him with a knife. I wasn't shocked. They have always had a violent relationship. But my dads not innocent either.
Apparently hes left her. Hes offered her 50/50 on the house, no mortgage. Shes refused and wants it all. Hes going to a solicitor. Shes accusing him of having an affair. He says hes not.
He has been staying at a hotel. I asked him what hes going to do when money runs out? He was a bit vague. Im worried hes going to top himself. He said hes been on the verge of it but has been speaking to samaritians. wtf can I do?
He said my mother keeps threating to kill herself too. They are so toxic together.
I don't know why I'm posting just ahhhhhhh.
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NC father turned up again today
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Fakebaker · 05/10/2016 20:18
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