A little more than 2 years ago I posted a thread as I was considering leaving my marriage. All the replies I got after describing exH's behaviour was that I was in an EA relationship and I should run as fast as I could.
Obviously, I knew better...he wasn't that bad...there were good times....I didn't know if I still loved him...He was sorry and would change...these strangers over the internet couldn't possible understand what is going on in MY relationship!!!
So I ignored all the advice and gave him another chance the mask slipped after 3 months and I realised I didn't know better...he was that bad...there weren't good times....I didn't still love him... He wasn't sorry and would never change...these strangers over the internet absolutely understood what was going on in MY relationship!!! And I left him.
That was 2 years and 3 days ago and this week I filed my divorce petition. I can't say it has all been plain sailing (or likely to be over the next few months) but I can say it was the best decision I have ever made and send a HUGE "Thank You" to all the wise mumsnetters that took the time to read & reply to my numerous posts. I honestly don't think I would have been brave enough to leave without your support.
So for anyone reading this, who is on the cusp of leaving but like I did, thinks their relationship is different...it isn't and the reason everyone on here knows so much is that we have all been through it too.
Here's to the future
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JellyBean31 · 30/09/2016 15:04
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