Hi all, just after a bit of advice. I managed to obtain video evidence of my husband of three years cheating on me today. I have stored that away safely and he has no idea what I've seen - I'm just about managing to act normal.
I know the standard advice on here is to gather copies of documents etc and see a lawyer before confronting husband, but I suppose my question is - what docs do I need to copy and why? We don't have any joint finances (he came into the marriage with a history of debt and CCJ's and I wanted to keep my credit score high). The house (bought two years ago) is in my name - I know that doesn't count for much when you're married, but he has barely contributed a bean since we've lived here. I pay the mortgage, all the bills, I've loaned him about £4K to cover his own bills in the last few months (I have a paper trail of this in my bank statements). He currently has personal debts of about £7k but these are in his name only. We don't have any kids.
I want to be in the strongest position possible when I eventually reveal what I know, so grateful for any advice. Also, where do I stand on changing the locks? I don't want him anywhere near me if possible.
Thanks in advance!
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Caught the cheating scumbag - what docs do I need before I confront?
Sweetlittleevilme · 07/09/2016 01:03
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