If breaks my heart. It's like history repeating itself.
They're away on holiday. He's abusing the all inclusive bar and getting belligerent and aggressive (not physically). She's feisty and does stand up for herself but it makes him worse. He thinks it's funny to constantly make jokes at her expense, just as he did with me, and he's downright unkind to her. She's wonderful and kind and sensitive, and doesn't deserve any of this. I left him 14 years ago and we're still engulfed in this.
I spent last night on the phone to her, she was in tears most of the conversation. She doesn't want to be there, she doesn't like him and I'm scared he will impact on her future relationships. Just as it has to me...essentially single for 14 years because I can't trust anyone and don't like myself.
I could do with some advice as to how to deal with this.
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