When I grew up my DM was a lovely embracing woman who taught me to take people as they were and not to judge them by colour/religion/etc. She is an immigrant herself and married outside her religion so it was important for her that myself and my siblings were open to others. We lived in a small town so it was a view quite contrary to other people's parents at the time, and my own DF and gps.
As time has moved on my family have gotten more and more anti others. My siblings help feed my DFs views and now my DM is beginning to be very vocally nasty about people. Today's random outburst for instance that was some people should be pulled from council housing and left to rot on the streets because they live a lifestyle she doesn't like.
DM used to temper my DF so I always felt safe that my dc wouldn't be exposed to that sort of nastiness. But now it can be a free for all. There are people of other races/religions/lifestyles on their own DFs side. DH himself isn't too happy with these views being aired in front of the DCs either.
We only visit them due to their physical inability to get to us, so visiting is pretty limited anyway. I'm seen as some sort of lunatic for getting upset over today's outburst. I couldn't head it off because it came from nowhere. Is there a way out of this without going nc?
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MagikarpetRide · 02/09/2016 15:33
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