Hello all
I have name changed. I don't usually hang out on Relationships but I have heard about the concept of Emotional Affairs. I'm worried I'm having one but really what's the difference between an EA and a friend of the opposite sex?
I have 2 lovely children and an amazing husband. I work full time and work can be full on. I started a new job in January and instantly hit it off with the manager. We have the same hobbies and interests and had good chats about them but also we work professionally very well together. Over time we swapped personal phone numbers and now send texts almost daily (not about work) including weekends. We go for a cup of tea every afternoon and usually will either go to the gym or have lunch together most days.
The problem I came to realise is that I go on holiday next week for 2 weeks with my family and I've found myself thinking that I'm going to miss him. At no point has anything happened romantically. He is married (no children) and I don't expect he's interested in a married mother of 2 but why do I feel like this? I love my husband I really do but if the holiday was cancelled I wouldn't be too upset.
What am I doing???
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Am I having an EA?
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AnonymousProblems · 19/08/2016 21:57
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