Just realised recently by observing other couples that dh and I are not really a team.
I think a lot of it comes from me. For example I'm usually more worried about inconveniencing other people than DH.
We don't really put each other first (or even second after the DC) and would like to fix that but am not sure how.
My parents were very definitely NOT a team, used us kids in the struggle with each other and I occasionally find myself doing this too and would really like to stop.
Any tips on how to be a team?
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Are you and your OH a team?
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jamaisjedors · 19/08/2016 17:51
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