Me and my ex have been separated over two years. Not officially divorced (but not sure if that's relevant).
Towards the end and just after we split up things were very messy and nasty. But he has always had contact with ds, and I'm pleased that despite everything our son still has a good relationship with his df.
Ds stays with him every Friday night and part of every Saturday. Last night he took him for a 'sleepover' with someone who was apparently an old school friend. When I mentioned 'him' ds corrected me to her. Now for one part the problem is that if I was going away on holiday or overnight I would always let the ex know just out of courtesy and in case of emergency (where they went was a four hour round trip away), and I also don't think ds is ready for this. It just makes me feel a bit icky too and I'm not sure why.
I almost posted this in aibu, but I thought relationships might be a kinder place.
I'd really appreciate some replies / opinions. Thanks.
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Ex took our ds to stay overnight at a girl 'friends'..
ColdTattyWaitingForSummer · 13/08/2016 20:07
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