Hi all
To cut a long story short or I'd be here all day. I'm really missing who I believe is my soulmate. We have known each other 6 years we dated briefly 6 years ago not long after we met but there is a issue there's a massive age difference I am in my 20s and he told me he was 45 we stayed friends as it wasn't going to work as anything else as people would not accept the age thing, anyway we stayed very good friends and both dated others. By the way we both have children his are grown up two my age and two older. Anyway he has always been there for me even helping out with a place for me and my children to live when things went bad with my bf. But anyway last year I found out he lied to me for years and was actually in his 50s I was hurt and eventually I forgave him and we remained in contact. We slept together now and then but it wasn't a relationship just friends who slept together . He has always said he loves me and tells me this whenever we have a chat about how great it'd be if we were ever together. Anyway now we have hardly spoke in the last 7 months just a text now and then even though I've tried to contact him he's not replying much. He lied to me about 7 months ago about his gfs name I know not a biggy but it seems he lies quite a lot. He was married years ago and had a affair so was divorced a long time when we met. He was a it strange last year and I seen him waiting in my local road ( he knows which way I go school run on foot) he is from. Different town so I know it was because he was a bit stalky he then admitted this and said he wouldn't do it again. The last week I can't stop thinking of all the good times we had together I really miss him. He said he's no longer with his gf who is either called Clair or Jane. Very odd I know
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Firestone16 · 23/07/2016 07:49
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