Things hadn't been right between me and hubby for a while. I had put it down to stressful things going on such as him working away part of the week, us selling our house so we could make the move to where he works, me being pregnant - now with little baby (+ big sister toddler).
Anyway yesterday he popped to the shop and I decided to take a look at his phone and sure enough very definite evidence of cheating. Absolutely gutted! It's over for me the trust is broken. I confronted him and there was no real great explanation for it. He wants us to work it out but I've pulled us through a few rocky patches before and I feel this is the last straw now.
So I've decided I'm not going to make the move to where he works which is currently about 2 hours from were we've lived for many years. I now have two options I either stay in the same area so I have my circle of friends here and a work office I know well. I don't have any family in this area. Second option is to move to Scotland where my sister lives as I know I will need some good support from her but I don't have the circle of friends there and will be transferring to a new office. Living close to my sister is something I've always wanted to do so this could be a chance to do that - but am I being silly when she is the only person I will know there?
I also need to consider carefully as my eldest will need to apply for her school place at the end of this year so my move will effect this.
I really don't know what to do?
We are currently in temporary accommodation as we've sold our house and this house is also in the final stages of being sold so I don't have much time to decide.
Can anyone help me make some kind of rational choice in my shocked state?
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Just found out my husband cheated - what to do next??
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D0ni · 19/07/2016 22:26
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