We ve just been away for a few days.I was reluctant as dh can be moody and i dont really like travelling.However only having had one mini break in 12 yrs i decided to go.
During the yr we work all hours and our dcs do too.I work all weekend and most eves he works earlier getting up 430 am and home by 7.so we share the chores and he has been picking dd up gone midnight as she cant drive.dd has just left her job as sometimes she finishes 230 am!!.
Anyway we go to a place we visited 24 yrs ago and it is beautiful.However he is still snappy or disengaged,No affection or conversation unless i start one.I admit i talk alot and i have been described as bubbly and energectic
,He is quiet doesnt express his feelings except anger.DH is 7 yrs older and i work with people half my age.Going away i felt a bit down with him and he is so unfit (he had a major heart attack and has even put on weight) so some of the uphill walking was a struggle.
our ds described him as old fashioned the other week.I am not sure how we will continue as we seem such complete opposites now.
TBH he did say we have a roof over our heads as the house is ours which is important as niether of us earns much
I know the kind of house share as we are not off at the same time kind of works i just feel sad that i /we dont have anything more than that,after almost 30 yrs.
I feel sad that the energy and great sex life we had has gone
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Feeling like there is nothing left after a holiday.
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whatisforteamum · 09/07/2016 08:24
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