Has anyone ever done couples counselling and found it had a positive impact on their marriage?
I love my husband with all my heart but lately I find myself having thoughts like "is he really THE ONE for me" I have these thoughts because I feel like right now we have different priorities. He's a brilliant dad and does a lot for us as a family but as a husband I just feel like it's one of those situations where because he's comfortable he's stopped trying to make an effort with me. He goes out to see his friends most evenings lately and the other night he did admit he had been going out a lot lately and he was sorry and it would stop, but this is something I've heard time and time again. He's addicted to smoking weed and i feel this has a lot to do with him seeing his friends because he goes where the weed is. Always says he's going to stop but never makes it more than 2-3 days and his mood is horrible in this time so to be honest I'm glad when he goes back on it because it means he will be nice to me again (how bad does that sound) were on a weekend away at the moment with our kids and I've had to step out and go for a walk because he's just been on his phone all night, I would rather us all be sociable and have fun but it's like he would just rather be on his phone.
I feel in an impossible situation because I do love this man and I know he loves me, he tells me every day but I can't go on like this. I'm not happy and I want to suggest counselling but I just don't think he will agree to it.
Sorry for the rant I think I just needed to vent.
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NoOne2016 · 02/07/2016 21:22
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