When Facebook pops up with reminders of previous years events I am always intrigued as to what happened. Well not this weekend as my Facebook reminded me that it was one year ago that I had my first night solo with our daughter. You'd think this would be insignificant but about a week or 2 later I discovered that on his night out with colleagues he had slept in the same bed with a female colleague after the house warming party he had gone to. They'd spent the whole night hugging and from my "research" after finding out it transpired that she really liked him and wanted it to go further.
The discussions after the event made me feel humiliated like they were joking about it and had no idea how serious it was and how it would make me feel.
Me and dh are still together although sometimes I'm not sure how we are still going. It still hurts when I think about it but i do still love him. How has it been a year already? The reminder has made it all come flooding back and I feel numb. How could he have done that to us?
How do people get through these little reminders of the event that messed their head up so much. I'm not the same person I was and life isn't the same. How long does it take to get life back on track?
FYI since the event life has been pretty horrific with unemployment and depression on dh front so there is a lot more going on that has meant it has been even more of a struggle getting back some normality.
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FairySouth · 20/06/2016 08:02
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