DH is the quietest, most laid back person anyone else can ever meet, but he won't let me get a word in edgeways.
My opinions, questions, conversations just don't appear to be important to him and it's driving me insane. When I moved in with DH (5 years ago!) he told me that he would be happy to move house should our house not feel like home to me. 6 months later I told him I'd like to move, he said 'after the wedding' then 'after baby is born' etc etc. 5 years on, we're still here, I'm desperate to move house and we've been looking at houses but he refuses to put ours on the market until he sees one he 'likes enough.' It's soul destroying because I know if we find 'the one' the likelihood is that we won't be able to make an offer anyway as ours isn't on the market!
Then today he returned home from work (I have Fridays at home with DS) and he bursts in and exclaims "wait until you hear about this..." and carried on with a 10 minute story about a colleague, I listened and smiled, nodded, found the story quite interesting and then went on to tell him about my day and abut DS . He began edging out of the room, I followed him and he then cut me off to say "would you like me to put the food shopping away or you?" He had been to get some groceries on the way home.
I told him to forget it. Went to the bathroom in tears (bit emotional, time.of the month) whilst he then went to take over playing with DS without a care in the world, laughing and joking away. I'd been perfectly happy playing with him myself before he walked through the door. He constantly cuts me off and doesn't seem to value anything I have to say, I'm really fed up with it. It makes me feel like shit. I had this overwhelming urge to slap him across the face when I walked back in and he was playing happily away with DS having told me about his day and listened to nothing about mine...
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razzlematazzle · 17/06/2016 20:42
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