I met dh 4 and a half years ago online. Food has always been part of our relationship - we've always enjoyed cooking for each other, going for breakfast, eating crap in front of Netflix. Thing is, dh is obese and has diabetes. I piled on weight since meeting him. But recently I have managed to get into the 'zone' and lost 2 and a half stone calorie counting and have also started running. I am now a healthy weight according to my bmi.
Dh accepts he needs to lose weight and has had support from weight management. He has now downloaded mfp and logs some of the time. He has talked about trying to walk regularly but hasn't got into routine with it. He accepts that he needs to do something about it but doesn't seem to stick at anything.
I am finding our relationship hard at the moment - I am feeling a bit frustrated with dh as he doesn't seem to stick at anything and want him to be where I am. I think dh is missing our Friday evening take aways etc so feel like we are lacking common ground.
Kind of don't know what to at the moment - struggling to be supportive without nagging. Worried that this is driving a wedge between us.
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MsColouring · 12/06/2016 14:01
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