Hello
(Sorry, this might be long)
I have just found out my husband has a gambling addiction.
Just after we got married, a lot of debt came to light which I helped him clear and he says that was run up through gambling (but didn't tell me at the time).
The same has happened again and he has come clear about everything. He is seeking counselling.
I can help him with the practical side of things, organising the best way to pay the money back, but I have no idea how to be with him emotionally.
I have told two good friends and told him he needs to tell his sister who he is close to as I'm not prepared to lie to her for him.
I can't bring myself to tell my mum, she is close to us and will think very poorly of him.
He says he is ashamed, very sorry, very tearful and wish he had asked for help sooner.
Has anyone been here and had any advice on how I should be behaving?
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Living with an addict
Mallowmarshmallow · 08/06/2016 09:49
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