Stupidly I have fallen pregnant by mistake.
My first child has additional needs and is challenging and requires more input than an average child.
My second child is just 1 year old. She is lovely however I suffered terribly from post natal depression and I really feel like I have only just got over that. It impacted our whole family and I look back horrified at what I became while I was ill with it. I really was very unwell.
Currently we are happy, enjoying life and had decided that we would not have any more children. We have made plans around us being a family of 4 and we were finally where we wanted to be as a family. And then a positive pregnancy test occurred.
I can see positives to having another child but the fear of PND and the impact of it on my children petrified me. I had a termination in my late teens which was the right decision but it was difficult to get over.
Has anyone any advice or story to share which can offer me comfort or help to make a decision.
I know I have been stupid but any views appreciated.
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Unplanned 3rd baby. Scared of recurring PND
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Gingeete · 29/05/2016 07:11
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