Compared to 99percent of people I am lucky. I know that.
but I am so unhappy. I feel shaky and sad. I am not sure is it my job. Poor relationship with my mother or my marriage. I have two very small dc and dh works evenings so I am on my own a lot (work full time but from the end of work until morning I am alone)
I am the type of person who would rather be on my own but I think even I am too lonely now to want to be fully alone.
I married dh. I was badly hurt before I met him. we married and had children within three years of meeting. there has never been much physically or much fun but we are good to each other. My work is highly paid and again the sensible option. local and sometimes I enjoy it.
but I feel desperately sad. I don't have many friends. I don't have any fun. dh would happily live his life without anything fun going on ever again. he likes his dinner and doing diy and doesn't drink. I said to him today we are very different people.He said he thinks his life is exciting and he does loads.
What do I do? I book the babysitter or occassional holiday. He wouldn't dream of it. I feel so unhappy
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wobblywonderwoman · 26/05/2016 18:20
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