Have NC. (Been around for 11 years. Jesus Christ, I'm old)
Ex husband. Always been a twat. Didn't realise how bad it was till I found someone who treated me properly (after we decided to split)
Came round the other day to collect kids, I want as little contact as possible so I asked him to wait outside, he takes MASSIVE offence at this and proceeds to go off his rocker. Gets up in my face, spit flying, forehead pushing against my face. Says some absolutely vile things. (I'm a dirty c**t. He wants to kill me. My girlfriend is xyz....then he proceeds to make fun of her disabled son) at that point I lost it (I had been trying to keep him calm 'it's just best if you wait outside/ok let's try and talk quietly etc' but when he did that I slapped him.
Not my finest moment and I take full responsibility but you have to understand this man has killed my self seem and spirit over the last x amount of years and I just broke.
So he retaliated by punching me in the shoulder. He then pushes me onto the couch and lifts my shoulders and slams me back so my head hits the wall behind the couch. He does this 3 times. Saying he wants to kill me. Kill my gf and her son :(
The kids were upstairs.
I called my mother and he eventually left. She came round and took the kids.
I know you will say call the police, but I slapped him first. And I know that other agencies will get involved and I'm terrified of that. I have MH issues from all this and speaking to people terrifies me. He will paint me as the unstable one. He said he will get them taken away.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I just wish I never had to see him again.
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PugsyMabone · 22/05/2016 10:59
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