Morning mumsnetters
I'm going to try & keep this short.
BF (together over a year) knows an old housemate of mine (I lived with her a decade ago)
He knows her through a shared hobby & as far as I knew, runs into her occasionally & is friends on FB.
Me & her fell out over lots of little things. I found her difficult to live with -just your usual differences-she wasn't very good at sharing the space & was quite intense & intimidating. I don't use FB but BF recently mentioned my full name in a post. Last night he told me he'd run into her that day & I asked if she knows we're together ( just curious)
He said she had told him she knew me but he got all flustered when he was telling me & it felt like he was lying. I said this to him & it came out that after seeing the FB post 3 weeks ago she rang him to warn him about me!?! Then said 'don't tell her I told you'
And he didn't tell me!
I feel really fucking annoyed because he lied & also didn't think to share the news of the phone call with me... for 3 weeks...
Why not? Why would he hide that?
We've been really close recently & I hate the fact that he's kept this from me. He is aware I struggle with trust & I feel like crap.
He said that she wasn't very good at articulating & he told her he didn't want to know but I just don't get why he's kept it all secret.....
This all sounds soooo 'playground'
I'm really
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He lied!
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lovelydayforaguinness · 22/05/2016 08:32
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