Help I need unbiased advice.
I've been seeing a man for nine months now. Meet each other children, have regular meet ups all was rosy in the garden until Friday eve. He has a boy and a girl. I have one girl. Our children have not yet met.
He was married for a long time now divorced. I've always felt he was an honest type of man what he said he did. No messing about but I know he is friendly terms with his ex wife that is good and normal but lately I have been feeling a bit pissed off as he seems to spent a lot of time with her ... I know this is good for the children as I'm on great terms with my ex.
Would you be ok with this ?
He spent her birthday with her she had a gathering at her house.
He bought her a bday present.
He puts up shelves and does jobs in her house.
She had an affair but he's not said a bad word about her.
They have been out with other couples for meals.
He spent a day last week with her sunning themselves in the park drinking wine.
This is a flag isn't it.
Want to tell him I'm uneasy with it. Not sure how to word it without looking insecure.
He could still have feeling for her couldn't he.
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zetec · 15/05/2016 09:52
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